Supporting Sibling Relationships in Families with Special Needs Children

In families where one child receives therapy or special education services, siblings are a vital part of the journey. While they may learn empathy, patience, and understanding at an early age, siblings also need their own support to feel seen, valued, and heard.

Why Siblings Need Support Too

Siblings may not fully understand why their brother or sister has extra needs or appointments. They might feel left out, confused, or unsure how to engage during therapy routines or high-stress moments. Providing intentional support helps siblings develop healthy relationships and a strong family bond.

Tips for Nurturing Sibling Connections:

Keep Lines of Communication Open
Age-appropriate conversations help siblings understand differences in development or behavior. Encourage questions and check in regularly.

Make One-on-One Time a Priority
Even short bursts of undivided attention can go a long way in making siblings feel special. Plan simple outings or share a favorite activity together.

Involve Siblings in Ways That Feel Good
Let them participate in games, therapies, or routines where appropriate—but without pressure. This builds connection without burdening them with responsibility.

Acknowledge All Emotions
It’s okay for siblings to feel jealous, frustrated, or even angry at times. Validate their feelings and help them express them in healthy ways.

Encourage Sibling Play and Fun
Shared activities like board games, crafts, or outdoor play can naturally build stronger relationships and shared memories.

Supporting siblings doesn't take away from your child's therapeutic journey; it enhances it. At Family of Kidz, we are here to support the whole family with resources, empathy, and care.